I spent my Thursday evening at a VP debate watching party which was hold at Tom's place with about half a dozen people.

Allow me to sum up.

The good:

  • Tom is cute, sweet, and sexy.
  • Tom has just learned I might be "available".
  • Tom was having passionate, involved (mostly political) conversations with me.

The bad:

  • Tom is far from perfect, which is fine, but to my eyes, some of what I consider as his imperfections are really problematic ones.
  • Tom was somewhat neglecting his girlfriend of a week to hold with me the passionate conversations I was talking about earlier, and damn near to flirt with me. I don't think excessive body contact with her was the best way to make it up to her.
  • Tom's new girlfriend is a nice girl (even though she isn't much into politics).
  • Tom's ex-girlfriend Nance is someone I am rather fond of.
  • Tom and the Fabulous Feline rather like each other.

The ugly:

  • Tom and I work in the same lab.
  • Tom and I have just started working on a long-time project together and there is absolutely no room to fuck it up with personal drama.